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    Post by Yoyo Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:46

    Holy cow, Titan wrote two large paragraphs on this. Go Titan! ^_^
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    Post by KarateKeyaQ Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:47

    Angelic Harmony wrote:he's not gonna leave Jia.
    This feels like deja vu. He's said this before, about leaving.


    no its been adding up 4 9 months now
    What has?
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    Post by Darkflame Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:47

    everything keya
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:48

    Titaniumxvx wrote:
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    Titaniumxvx wrote:This is unusual but I disagree with you, Charmeleon.

    You put up an extremly strong case and I admire you for it. Truly! BUT, there is a difference. If you need help, you can PM people and tell them about your troubles. Don't make useless threads about if anyone would care or love problems. Then you are wrapping the whole dang site in a typhoon of problems that they don't want to deal with. WOTN is a fun loving place to have a good time, it's not a place to mope about troubles of have a constant therapy session every time someone needs a good cry.

    Sabaku was absolutely right in locking that thread and I respect her for her wise, intuitive decision. Individual people can PM their trusted friends to help them instead of constantly running threads. Why do you think I say I am spectacular all of the time? Yes I am! I am joyous. Also, I wouldn't burden people except in private messages because I don't want to ruin their day. Sometimes people can be emo. Sometimes, they can be whiney and there is only so much useless whining that someone can put up with in a day. I like DF, he is my friend and I will listen to him as long as his life doesn't become the day's drama of everyone else's day. It's not being rude, it's being considerate to others who don't want to hear about it. It's not being silenced. It's called having some discretion on your insecurities and the play by play of your life. Discretion, not silencing. Once again, I disagree with you on this one, Charm

    the whole site does not have to be involved. Your onlly involved if you wanna be. Who says you have to reply to their thread? Who says that you have to read anything they say? but dont be going and yelling at a person and telling them to be quiet.

    Im not talking about saba in particular, but its not fair that Flamey has to be the example of being told to just stop threads like that. I can point out plenty of people who have made them threads and ppl say "Dont go". She could have just locked the thread. And Pmed him to please dont bring it to public.

    But i bet you anything on earth, tghat if that thread was unlocked, you will hear "Another emo thread." because thats how some people are.

    You dont have to reply to that thread. No one is forcing you. its a THREAD. It doesnt effect anyone. Its writing.

    The fact that I go to the ramen shop and see threads like those even boils my blood cold because that's one more useful thread pushed to the bottom of the pile. You know how the ramen shop system works, right? Whenever a new thread is made, the last thread is bumped to the next page which no one will ever see. A useless whining thread once again knocks out a useful thread.

    People are inclined to reply to it because it's obnoxiously right in their faces when they come to the ramen shop. It's a useless thread and it's right there under everyone's skin but no one is rude enough to point out it's useless. You know, Charm, I have seen 10 threads like that pop up in the past month. It's not a once-in-a-while problem. It's common, so common, and it's annoying and bothersome. Besides! When you make threads asking if you should leave or if anyone will care, everyone knows WOTN people will be say, "No! Don't go! We'll miss you!" They will follow basic etiquette and be polite, hoping to get on with their day when it's said and done. It happens invariably everytime. People will always beg someone not to go. If you already know people will ALWAYS say that, why even make one in the 1st place?

    The truth is...it is an emo thread. It is problematic and it is a day ruiner. That's why it was called for what it was and people have every liberty to quit being polite and calling it for what it is. I am sure the reason that it was publicly locked like that, Charm, was for it to serve as an example. Other people who were thinking of making a thread like that one will be discouraged. If Saba had just Pm'ed the DF telling him not to instead of doing it firmly and publicly, no one would have known how much WOTN discourages threads like those. Plus, that was DF's second thread in a row. It served as a wise reminder to WOTN. Oh! And I am sorry this was so long!

    Stop using Flamey as an example. forget that.

    I get what your saying Titan, but would you rather lose 10 members and not know why your dear friends are leaving or listen to them and see if you can save them from walking out of your life?
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    Post by KarateKeyaQ Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:49

    darkflame wrote:everything keya
    I am sorry. If you wanna talk, I'm here.

    Even though you probably don't ^_^
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    Post by Yoyo Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:49

    KarateKeyaQ wrote:
    darkflame wrote:everything keya
    I am sorry. If you wanna talk, I'm here.

    Even though you probably don't ^_^

    I've offered to talk to anyone who wants to talk, and hardly anyone takes me up on the offer, any more. Not my problem if they don't take initiative.
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    Post by KarateKeyaQ Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:50

    Yoyo wrote:
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    darkflame wrote:everything keya
    I am sorry. If you wanna talk, I'm here.

    Even though you probably don't ^_^

    I've offered to talk to anyone who wants to talk, and hardly anyone takes me up on the offer, any more. Not my problem if they don't take initiative.
    Exactly.
    Which is why I honestly stopped caring.
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:50

    you cant just say you'll listen and expect it Yurii. ^_^;;

    takes a little time. *Shrugs*
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    Post by Titaniumxvx Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:53

    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:This is unusual but I disagree with you, Charmeleon.

    You put up an extremly strong case and I admire you for it. Truly! BUT, there is a difference. If you need help, you can PM people and tell them about your troubles. Don't make useless threads about if anyone would care or love problems. Then you are wrapping the whole dang site in a typhoon of problems that they don't want to deal with. WOTN is a fun loving place to have a good time, it's not a place to mope about troubles of have a constant therapy session every time someone needs a good cry.

    Sabaku was absolutely right in locking that thread and I respect her for her wise, intuitive decision. Individual people can PM their trusted friends to help them instead of constantly running threads. Why do you think I say I am spectacular all of the time? Yes I am! I am joyous. Also, I wouldn't burden people except in private messages because I don't want to ruin their day. Sometimes people can be emo. Sometimes, they can be whiney and there is only so much useless whining that someone can put up with in a day. I like DF, he is my friend and I will listen to him as long as his life doesn't become the day's drama of everyone else's day. It's not being rude, it's being considerate to others who don't want to hear about it. It's not being silenced. It's called having some discretion on your insecurities and the play by play of your life. Discretion, not silencing. Once again, I disagree with you on this one, Charm

    the whole site does not have to be involved. Your onlly involved if you wanna be. Who says you have to reply to their thread? Who says that you have to read anything they say? but dont be going and yelling at a person and telling them to be quiet.

    Im not talking about saba in particular, but its not fair that Flamey has to be the example of being told to just stop threads like that. I can point out plenty of people who have made them threads and ppl say "Dont go". She could have just locked the thread. And Pmed him to please dont bring it to public.

    But i bet you anything on earth, tghat if that thread was unlocked, you will hear "Another emo thread." because thats how some people are.

    You dont have to reply to that thread. No one is forcing you. its a THREAD. It doesnt effect anyone. Its writing.

    The fact that I go to the ramen shop and see threads like those even boils my blood cold because that's one more useful thread pushed to the bottom of the pile. You know how the ramen shop system works, right? Whenever a new thread is made, the last thread is bumped to the next page which no one will ever see. A useless whining thread once again knocks out a useful thread.

    People are inclined to reply to it because it's obnoxiously right in their faces when they come to the ramen shop. It's a useless thread and it's right there under everyone's skin but no one is rude enough to point out it's useless. You know, Charm, I have seen 10 threads like that pop up in the past month. It's not a once-in-a-while problem. It's common, so common, and it's annoying and bothersome. Besides! When you make threads asking if you should leave or if anyone will care, everyone knows WOTN people will be say, "No! Don't go! We'll miss you!" They will follow basic etiquette and be polite, hoping to get on with their day when it's said and done. It happens invariably everytime. People will always beg someone not to go. If you already know people will ALWAYS say that, why even make one in the 1st place?

    The truth is...it is an emo thread. It is problematic and it is a day ruiner. That's why it was called for what it was and people have every liberty to quit being polite and calling it for what it is. I am sure the reason that it was publicly locked like that, Charm, was for it to serve as an example. Other people who were thinking of making a thread like that one will be discouraged. If Saba had just Pm'ed the DF telling him not to instead of doing it firmly and publicly, no one would have known how much WOTN discourages threads like those. Plus, that was DF's second thread in a row. It served as a wise reminder to WOTN. Oh! And I am sorry this was so long!

    Stop using Flamey as an example. forget that.

    I get what your saying Titan, but would you rather lose 10 members and not know why your dear friends are leaving or listen to them and see if you can save them from walking out of your life?

    All Right then! No Problemo.

    I would rather I would know. I definitely would want to know how they felt if they chose to tell me, Charm. But I would rather not read 10 ramen shop threads on the subject.

    If your argument is that we should listen to people's problems, by all means, I agree! I only disagree on not locking threads that deserve to be locked and calling out threads like those to be emo when they are. I know we can find much common ground on this.


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    Post by Darkflame Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:54

    u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:56

    Titaniumxvx wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:This is unusual but I disagree with you, Charmeleon.

    You put up an extremly strong case and I admire you for it. Truly! BUT, there is a difference. If you need help, you can PM people and tell them about your troubles. Don't make useless threads about if anyone would care or love problems. Then you are wrapping the whole dang site in a typhoon of problems that they don't want to deal with. WOTN is a fun loving place to have a good time, it's not a place to mope about troubles of have a constant therapy session every time someone needs a good cry.

    Sabaku was absolutely right in locking that thread and I respect her for her wise, intuitive decision. Individual people can PM their trusted friends to help them instead of constantly running threads. Why do you think I say I am spectacular all of the time? Yes I am! I am joyous. Also, I wouldn't burden people except in private messages because I don't want to ruin their day. Sometimes people can be emo. Sometimes, they can be whiney and there is only so much useless whining that someone can put up with in a day. I like DF, he is my friend and I will listen to him as long as his life doesn't become the day's drama of everyone else's day. It's not being rude, it's being considerate to others who don't want to hear about it. It's not being silenced. It's called having some discretion on your insecurities and the play by play of your life. Discretion, not silencing. Once again, I disagree with you on this one, Charm

    the whole site does not have to be involved. Your onlly involved if you wanna be. Who says you have to reply to their thread? Who says that you have to read anything they say? but dont be going and yelling at a person and telling them to be quiet.

    Im not talking about saba in particular, but its not fair that Flamey has to be the example of being told to just stop threads like that. I can point out plenty of people who have made them threads and ppl say "Dont go". She could have just locked the thread. And Pmed him to please dont bring it to public.

    But i bet you anything on earth, tghat if that thread was unlocked, you will hear "Another emo thread." because thats how some people are.

    You dont have to reply to that thread. No one is forcing you. its a THREAD. It doesnt effect anyone. Its writing.

    The fact that I go to the ramen shop and see threads like those even boils my blood cold because that's one more useful thread pushed to the bottom of the pile. You know how the ramen shop system works, right? Whenever a new thread is made, the last thread is bumped to the next page which no one will ever see. A useless whining thread once again knocks out a useful thread.

    People are inclined to reply to it because it's obnoxiously right in their faces when they come to the ramen shop. It's a useless thread and it's right there under everyone's skin but no one is rude enough to point out it's useless. You know, Charm, I have seen 10 threads like that pop up in the past month. It's not a once-in-a-while problem. It's common, so common, and it's annoying and bothersome. Besides! When you make threads asking if you should leave or if anyone will care, everyone knows WOTN people will be say, "No! Don't go! We'll miss you!" They will follow basic etiquette and be polite, hoping to get on with their day when it's said and done. It happens invariably everytime. People will always beg someone not to go. If you already know people will ALWAYS say that, why even make one in the 1st place?

    The truth is...it is an emo thread. It is problematic and it is a day ruiner. That's why it was called for what it was and people have every liberty to quit being polite and calling it for what it is. I am sure the reason that it was publicly locked like that, Charm, was for it to serve as an example. Other people who were thinking of making a thread like that one will be discouraged. If Saba had just Pm'ed the DF telling him not to instead of doing it firmly and publicly, no one would have known how much WOTN discourages threads like those. Plus, that was DF's second thread in a row. It served as a wise reminder to WOTN. Oh! And I am sorry this was so long!

    Stop using Flamey as an example. forget that.

    I get what your saying Titan, but would you rather lose 10 members and not know why your dear friends are leaving or listen to them and see if you can save them from walking out of your life?

    All Right then! No Problemo.

    I would rather I would know. I definitely would want to know how they felt if they chose to tell me, Charm. But I would rather not read 10 ramen shop threads on the subject.

    If your argument is that we should listen to people's problems, by all means, I agree! I only disagree on not locking threads and calling out threads like those to be emo. I know we can find much common ground on this.

    No. I wasnt pointing out you shouldnt lock them. im pointing out that you don't tell thme to keep it quiet. i get it. the threats make me irritated also. But i am also glad they are informing us something is wrong in life.

    As annoying as it sometimes gets.
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 00:57

    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.
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    Post by Darkflame Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:02

    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:03

    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I'm not your assitant. i'm your friend. it's not gonna stop me from worrying, or figuring out a way to get to know you better.
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    Post by KarateKeyaQ Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:04

    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I don't understand.
    You've been asking us nonstop about love and you leaving and all this other stuff but it never mattered? And you never cared about what we thought?
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    Post by Darkflame Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:05

    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
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    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I'm not your assitant. i'm your friend. it's not gonna stop me from worrying, or figuring out a way to get to know you better.

    thats not wht i ment >_>

    assist is to help some1

    i'm saying that you don't know me enough to be any
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    Post by 3.2.1.0.84.NG! Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:06

    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?

    Who said they knew you? Honestly df, no one knows you or what you've been through, but if you wanna talk, there are always gonna be people who would wanna hear you out. And I'm not just saying this to be nice, I'm being truthful. You can't seriously expect people to know you at all if you won't talk to them.

    If you wanna leave, then that's your choice and I won't criticize you on it. But if there's a problem, there are many people you can talk to that will actually listen.
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:07

    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I'm not your assitant. i'm your friend. it's not gonna stop me from worrying, or figuring out a way to get to know you better.

    thats not wht i ment >_>

    assist is to help some1

    i'm saying that you don't know me enough to be any

    I could be though. if you want me to be. *shrugs*
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    Post by Darkflame Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:11

    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I'm not your assitant. i'm your friend. it's not gonna stop me from worrying, or figuring out a way to get to know you better.

    thats not wht i ment >_>

    assist is to help some1

    i'm saying that you don't know me enough to be any

    I could be though. if you want me to be. *shrugs*

    give me ur best shot
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    Post by Titaniumxvx Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:11

    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:This is unusual but I disagree with you, Charmeleon.

    You put up an extremly strong case and I admire you for it. Truly! BUT, there is a difference. If you need help, you can PM people and tell them about your troubles. Don't make useless threads about if anyone would care or love problems. Then you are wrapping the whole dang site in a typhoon of problems that they don't want to deal with. WOTN is a fun loving place to have a good time, it's not a place to mope about troubles of have a constant therapy session every time someone needs a good cry.

    Sabaku was absolutely right in locking that thread and I respect her for her wise, intuitive decision. Individual people can PM their trusted friends to help them instead of constantly running threads. Why do you think I say I am spectacular all of the time? Yes I am! I am joyous. Also, I wouldn't burden people except in private messages because I don't want to ruin their day. Sometimes people can be emo. Sometimes, they can be whiney and there is only so much useless whining that someone can put up with in a day. I like DF, he is my friend and I will listen to him as long as his life doesn't become the day's drama of everyone else's day. It's not being rude, it's being considerate to others who don't want to hear about it. It's not being silenced. It's called having some discretion on your insecurities and the play by play of your life. Discretion, not silencing. Once again, I disagree with you on this one, Charm

    the whole site does not have to be involved. Your onlly involved if you wanna be. Who says you have to reply to their thread? Who says that you have to read anything they say? but dont be going and yelling at a person and telling them to be quiet.

    Im not talking about saba in particular, but its not fair that Flamey has to be the example of being told to just stop threads like that. I can point out plenty of people who have made them threads and ppl say "Dont go". She could have just locked the thread. And Pmed him to please dont bring it to public.

    But i bet you anything on earth, tghat if that thread was unlocked, you will hear "Another emo thread." because thats how some people are.

    You dont have to reply to that thread. No one is forcing you. its a THREAD. It doesnt effect anyone. Its writing.

    The fact that I go to the ramen shop and see threads like those even boils my blood cold because that's one more useful thread pushed to the bottom of the pile. You know how the ramen shop system works, right? Whenever a new thread is made, the last thread is bumped to the next page which no one will ever see. A useless whining thread once again knocks out a useful thread.

    People are inclined to reply to it because it's obnoxiously right in their faces when they come to the ramen shop. It's a useless thread and it's right there under everyone's skin but no one is rude enough to point out it's useless. You know, Charm, I have seen 10 threads like that pop up in the past month. It's not a once-in-a-while problem. It's common, so common, and it's annoying and bothersome. Besides! When you make threads asking if you should leave or if anyone will care, everyone knows WOTN people will be say, "No! Don't go! We'll miss you!" They will follow basic etiquette and be polite, hoping to get on with their day when it's said and done. It happens invariably everytime. People will always beg someone not to go. If you already know people will ALWAYS say that, why even make one in the 1st place?

    The truth is...it is an emo thread. It is problematic and it is a day ruiner. That's why it was called for what it was and people have every liberty to quit being polite and calling it for what it is. I am sure the reason that it was publicly locked like that, Charm, was for it to serve as an example. Other people who were thinking of making a thread like that one will be discouraged. If Saba had just Pm'ed the DF telling him not to instead of doing it firmly and publicly, no one would have known how much WOTN discourages threads like those. Plus, that was DF's second thread in a row. It served as a wise reminder to WOTN. Oh! And I am sorry this was so long!

    Stop using Flamey as an example. forget that.

    I get what your saying Titan, but would you rather lose 10 members and not know why your dear friends are leaving or listen to them and see if you can save them from walking out of your life?

    All Right then! No Problemo.

    I would rather I would know. I definitely would want to know how they felt if they chose to tell me, Charm. But I would rather not read 10 ramen shop threads on the subject.

    If your argument is that we should listen to people's problems, by all means, I agree! I only disagree on not locking threads and calling out threads like those to be emo. I know we can find much common ground on this.

    No. I wasnt pointing out you shouldnt lock them. im pointing out that you don't tell thme to keep it quiet. i get it. the threats make me irritated also. But i am also glad they are informing us something is wrong in life.

    As annoying as it sometimes gets.

    Definitely! I would hate to see someone who means something to me suffer alone.
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:13

    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I'm not your assitant. i'm your friend. it's not gonna stop me from worrying, or figuring out a way to get to know you better.

    thats not wht i ment >_>

    assist is to help some1

    i'm saying that you don't know me enough to be any

    I could be though. if you want me to be. *shrugs*

    give me ur best shot

    I can give you anything without you telling me something.
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    Post by Darkflame Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:14

    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I'm not your assitant. i'm your friend. it's not gonna stop me from worrying, or figuring out a way to get to know you better.

    thats not wht i ment >_>

    assist is to help some1

    i'm saying that you don't know me enough to be any

    I could be though. if you want me to be. *shrugs*

    give me ur best shot

    I can give you anything without you telling me something.

    if i'm here when u get back sure
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:14

    Titaniumxvx wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    Titaniumxvx wrote:This is unusual but I disagree with you, Charmeleon.

    You put up an extremly strong case and I admire you for it. Truly! BUT, there is a difference. If you need help, you can PM people and tell them about your troubles. Don't make useless threads about if anyone would care or love problems. Then you are wrapping the whole dang site in a typhoon of problems that they don't want to deal with. WOTN is a fun loving place to have a good time, it's not a place to mope about troubles of have a constant therapy session every time someone needs a good cry.

    Sabaku was absolutely right in locking that thread and I respect her for her wise, intuitive decision. Individual people can PM their trusted friends to help them instead of constantly running threads. Why do you think I say I am spectacular all of the time? Yes I am! I am joyous. Also, I wouldn't burden people except in private messages because I don't want to ruin their day. Sometimes people can be emo. Sometimes, they can be whiney and there is only so much useless whining that someone can put up with in a day. I like DF, he is my friend and I will listen to him as long as his life doesn't become the day's drama of everyone else's day. It's not being rude, it's being considerate to others who don't want to hear about it. It's not being silenced. It's called having some discretion on your insecurities and the play by play of your life. Discretion, not silencing. Once again, I disagree with you on this one, Charm

    the whole site does not have to be involved. Your onlly involved if you wanna be. Who says you have to reply to their thread? Who says that you have to read anything they say? but dont be going and yelling at a person and telling them to be quiet.

    Im not talking about saba in particular, but its not fair that Flamey has to be the example of being told to just stop threads like that. I can point out plenty of people who have made them threads and ppl say "Dont go". She could have just locked the thread. And Pmed him to please dont bring it to public.

    But i bet you anything on earth, tghat if that thread was unlocked, you will hear "Another emo thread." because thats how some people are.

    You dont have to reply to that thread. No one is forcing you. its a THREAD. It doesnt effect anyone. Its writing.

    The fact that I go to the ramen shop and see threads like those even boils my blood cold because that's one more useful thread pushed to the bottom of the pile. You know how the ramen shop system works, right? Whenever a new thread is made, the last thread is bumped to the next page which no one will ever see. A useless whining thread once again knocks out a useful thread.

    People are inclined to reply to it because it's obnoxiously right in their faces when they come to the ramen shop. It's a useless thread and it's right there under everyone's skin but no one is rude enough to point out it's useless. You know, Charm, I have seen 10 threads like that pop up in the past month. It's not a once-in-a-while problem. It's common, so common, and it's annoying and bothersome. Besides! When you make threads asking if you should leave or if anyone will care, everyone knows WOTN people will be say, "No! Don't go! We'll miss you!" They will follow basic etiquette and be polite, hoping to get on with their day when it's said and done. It happens invariably everytime. People will always beg someone not to go. If you already know people will ALWAYS say that, why even make one in the 1st place?

    The truth is...it is an emo thread. It is problematic and it is a day ruiner. That's why it was called for what it was and people have every liberty to quit being polite and calling it for what it is. I am sure the reason that it was publicly locked like that, Charm, was for it to serve as an example. Other people who were thinking of making a thread like that one will be discouraged. If Saba had just Pm'ed the DF telling him not to instead of doing it firmly and publicly, no one would have known how much WOTN discourages threads like those. Plus, that was DF's second thread in a row. It served as a wise reminder to WOTN. Oh! And I am sorry this was so long!

    Stop using Flamey as an example. forget that.

    I get what your saying Titan, but would you rather lose 10 members and not know why your dear friends are leaving or listen to them and see if you can save them from walking out of your life?

    All Right then! No Problemo.

    I would rather I would know. I definitely would want to know how they felt if they chose to tell me, Charm. But I would rather not read 10 ramen shop threads on the subject.

    If your argument is that we should listen to people's problems, by all means, I agree! I only disagree on not locking threads and calling out threads like those to be emo. I know we can find much common ground on this.

    No. I wasnt pointing out you shouldnt lock them. im pointing out that you don't tell thme to keep it quiet. i get it. the threats make me irritated also. But i am also glad they are informing us something is wrong in life.

    As annoying as it sometimes gets.

    Definitely! I would hate to see someone who means something to me suffer alone.

    Exactly my point. ^_^ Don't worry, i fully agree what you meant with locking threads and all.
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    Post by Angelic Harmony Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:15

    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I'm not your assitant. i'm your friend. it's not gonna stop me from worrying, or figuring out a way to get to know you better.

    thats not wht i ment >_>

    assist is to help some1

    i'm saying that you don't know me enough to be any

    I could be though. if you want me to be. *shrugs*

    give me ur best shot

    I can give you anything without you telling me something.

    if i'm here when u get back sure

    Well. Fine then.
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    Post by Darkflame Sun Nov 02 2008, 01:17

    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:
    Angelic Harmony wrote:
    darkflame wrote:u guys think u do, but think do u really know, do u really know who i am, what i've been through, what i've seen and felt, so again i ask to you REALLY know me?
    No ones saying they know you thats well, Flamey.

    then u can't be of assistance 2 me
    I'm not your assitant. i'm your friend. it's not gonna stop me from worrying, or figuring out a way to get to know you better.

    thats not wht i ment >_>

    assist is to help some1

    i'm saying that you don't know me enough to be any

    I could be though. if you want me to be. *shrugs*

    give me ur best shot

    I can give you anything without you telling me something.

    if i'm here when u get back sure

    Well. Fine then.

    i'm just 2 tired tbh

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