Speak or Hushed

Okay. I see that some threads are being locked or people are being yelled at for expressing how they feel. And I find it uttery WRONG. If people wanna make threads about how thye feel or thier problems, don't shun them out or tell them 'stop this emo shit'. Its not EMO. Learn to shut yourselves up and LISTEN to people. Myabe someone has something hard going on this their life. It's sadness. And emotion. Not everyone wants to hide that. WTF are you thinking.

"Stop being emo and get happy!"

Fucking pissing me off. You DONT tell someone that! You say "Whats wrong? wanna talk about it?" HELP THEM.

We are all sad. Doesnt make us Emo.

People with the threads that say "Im quitting", maybe something is wrong. god damn. For once, stop yelling at people are quitting, and talk to them. THATS how you save members. Not by telling them "Stop putting these threads up."

Make a difference. Don't hush people up. Help them.

go charm!

WAIT!

Who's leaving? O_o

This is unusual but I disagree with you, Charmeleon.

You put up an extremly strong case and I admire you for it. Truly! BUT, there is a difference. If you need help, you can PM people and tell them about your troubles. Don't make useless threads about trying to see if anyone would care about you because most times they would. Don't make useless threads about love when they are problematic. You shoudn't because then you are wrapping the whole dang site in a typhoon of problems that they don't want to deal with. WOTN is a rowdy, merry place to have a good time, it serves as a constant enjoyment in my lazy youthful life! It's not a place to mope about troubles or to have a constant therapy session every time someone needs a good cry. That makes it so dreary and less fun.

Sabaku was absolutely right in locking that thread and I respect her for her wise, intuitive decision. Individual people can PM their trusted friends to help them instead of constantly running threads. Why do you think I say I am spectacular all of the time? Yes I am! I am joyous. Also, I wouldn't burden people except in private messages because I don't want to ruin their day. Sometimes people can be emo. Sometimes, they can be whiney and there is only so much useless whining that someone can put up with in a day. I like DF, he is my friend and I will listen to him as long as his life doesn't become the day's drama of everyone else's day. It's not being rude, it's being considerate to others who don't want to hear about it. It's not being silenced. It's called having some discretion on your insecurities and the play by play of your life. Discretion, not silencing. Once again, I disagree with you on this one, Charm

No one. but people who put it in threads and stuff are being yelled at by people and its making me mad. No one should be tell to stay quiet. People need to listen about whats wrong with that person to make them wanna quit.

Telling someone to be quiet is like telling them we dont care about them at all. people on WotN are supposed to be like family. What family shuns eachother out?

Go Titan!

Go people!

Titaniumxvx wrote:This is unusual but I disagree with you, Charmeleon.

You put up an extremly strong case and I admire you for it. Truly! BUT, there is a difference. If you need help, you can PM people and tell them about your troubles. Don't make useless threads about if anyone would care or love problems. Then you are wrapping the whole dang site in a typhoon of problems that they don't want to deal with. WOTN is a fun loving place to have a good time, it's not a place to mope about troubles of have a constant therapy session every time someone needs a good cry.

Sabaku was absolutely right in locking that thread and I respect her for her wise, intuitive decision. Individual people can PM their trusted friends to help them instead of constantly running threads. Why do you think I say I am spectacular all of the time? Yes I am! I am joyous. Also, I wouldn't burden people except in private messages because I don't want to ruin their day. Sometimes people can be emo. Sometimes, they can be whiney and there is only so much useless whining that someone can put up with in a day. I like DF, he is my friend and I will listen to him as long as his life doesn't become the day's drama of everyone else's day. It's not being rude, it's being considerate to others who don't want to hear about it. It's not being silenced. It's called having some discretion on your insecurities and the play by play of your life. Discretion, not silencing. Once again, I disagree with you on this one, Charm

the whole site does not have to be involved. Your onlly involved if you wanna be. Who says you have to reply to their thread? Who says that you have to read anything they say? but dont be going and yelling at a person and telling them to be quiet.

Im not talking about saba in particular, but its not fair that Flamey has to be the example of being told to just stop threads like that. I can point out plenty of people who have made them threads and ppl say "Dont go". She could have just locked the thread. And Pmed him to please dont bring it to public.

But i bet you anything on earth, tghat if that thread was unlocked, you will hear "Another emo thread." because thats how some people are.

You dont have to reply to that thread. No one is forcing you. its a THREAD. It doesnt effect anyone. Its writing.

u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

darkflame wrote:u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

Df no please!

darkflame wrote:u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

*Puts a hand on your head*
Your not apart of this. Dont worry. Just saying.

i don't want 2 be used as an example, i'm not worth giving an example

Akah, please. T_T Flamey's not gonna quit. I know him well enough to know that.

Angelic Harmony wrote:

darkflame wrote:u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

*Puts a hand on your head*
Your not apart of this. Dont worry. Just saying.

titan already did make me part of this

darkflame wrote:i don't want 2 be used as an example, i'm not worth giving an example

Sorry. It was just make my point. didnt mean to use you as one.

Angelic Harmony wrote:Akah, please. T_T Flamey's not gonna quit. I know him well enough to know that.

have u seen how depreased i've been lately?

darkflame wrote:

Angelic Harmony wrote:

darkflame wrote:u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

*Puts a hand on your head*
Your not apart of this. Dont worry. Just saying.

titan already did make me part of this

Dont worry what Tina said. ^_^ Its over.

darkflame wrote:u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

Yer gonna leave over something like this?

Angelic Harmony wrote:

darkflame wrote:

Angelic Harmony wrote:

darkflame wrote:u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

*Puts a hand on your head*
Your not apart of this. Dont worry. Just saying.

titan already did make me part of this

Dont worry what Tina said. ^_^ Its over.

w/e...

darkflame wrote:

Angelic Harmony wrote:Akah, please. T_T Flamey's not gonna quit. I know him well enough to know that.

have u seen how depreased i've been lately?

Then talk to me about it, alright?

but no one stays depressed 24/7. I know that.

Angelic Harmony wrote:

Titaniumxvx wrote:This is unusual but I disagree with you, Charmeleon.

You put up an extremly strong case and I admire you for it. Truly! BUT, there is a difference. If you need help, you can PM people and tell them about your troubles. Don't make useless threads about if anyone would care or love problems. Then you are wrapping the whole dang site in a typhoon of problems that they don't want to deal with. WOTN is a fun loving place to have a good time, it's not a place to mope about troubles of have a constant therapy session every time someone needs a good cry.

Sabaku was absolutely right in locking that thread and I respect her for her wise, intuitive decision. Individual people can PM their trusted friends to help them instead of constantly running threads. Why do you think I say I am spectacular all of the time? Yes I am! I am joyous. Also, I wouldn't burden people except in private messages because I don't want to ruin their day. Sometimes people can be emo. Sometimes, they can be whiney and there is only so much useless whining that someone can put up with in a day. I like DF, he is my friend and I will listen to him as long as his life doesn't become the day's drama of everyone else's day. It's not being rude, it's being considerate to others who don't want to hear about it. It's not being silenced. It's called having some discretion on your insecurities and the play by play of your life. Discretion, not silencing. Once again, I disagree with you on this one, Charm

the whole site does not have to be involved. Your onlly involved if you wanna be. Who says you have to reply to their thread? Who says that you have to read anything they say? but dont be going and yelling at a person and telling them to be quiet.

Im not talking about saba in particular, but its not fair that Flamey has to be the example of being told to just stop threads like that. I can point out plenty of people who have made them threads and ppl say "Dont go". She could have just locked the thread. And Pmed him to please dont bring it to public.

But i bet you anything on earth, tghat if that thread was unlocked, you will hear "Another emo thread." because thats how some people are.

You dont have to reply to that thread. No one is forcing you. its a THREAD. It doesnt effect anyone. Its writing.

The fact that I go to the ramen shop and see threads like those even boils my blood cold because that's one more useful thread pushed to the bottom of the pile. You know how the ramen shop system works, right? Whenever a new thread is made, the last thread is bumped to the next page which no one will ever see. A useless whining thread once again knocks out a useful thread.

People are inclined to reply to it because it's obnoxiously right in their faces when they come to the ramen shop. It's a useless thread and it's right there under everyone's skin but no one is rude enough to point out it's useless. You know, Charm, I have seen 10 threads like that pop up in the past month. It's not a once-in-a-while problem. It's common, so common, and it's annoying and bothersome. Besides! When you make threads asking if you should leave or if anyone will care, everyone knows WOTN people will be say, "No! Don't go! We'll miss you!" They will follow basic etiquette and be polite, hoping to get on with their day when it's said and done. It happens invariably everytime. People will always beg someone not to go. If you already know people will ALWAYS say that, why even make one in the 1st place?

The truth is...it is an emo thread. It is problematic and it is a day ruiner. That's why it was called for what it was and people have every liberty to quit being polite and calling it for what it is. I am sure the reason that it was publicly locked like that, Charm, was for it to serve as an example. Other people who were thinking of making a thread like that one will be discouraged. If Saba had just Pm'ed the DF telling him not to instead of doing it firmly and publicly, no one would have known how much WOTN discourages threads like those. Plus, that was DF's second thread in a row. It served as a wise reminder to WOTN. Oh! And I am sorry this was so long!

he's not gonna leave Jia.

KarateKeyaQ wrote:

darkflame wrote:u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

Yer gonna leave over something like this?

no its been adding up 4 9 months now

darkflame wrote:u know what if i'm gona be used as an example for shit like this... i might as well leave

I am so sorry about that, DF. I really am, you don't even know.

Angelic Harmony wrote:

darkflame wrote:

Angelic Harmony wrote:Akah, please. T_T Flamey's not gonna quit. I know him well enough to know that.

have u seen how depreased i've been lately?

Then talk to me about it, alright?

but no one stays depressed 24/7. I know that.

then u no wrong