advice needed (omg seriously shugo is asking people for help!!!!)

i know i know me making a topic.... it seems crazy to comprehend anything that may spew from my mouth. my topics often lead to someone getting pissed. (mostly me) (OMG HES USING PUNCTUATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

but any advice in this topic would be greatly appreciated.

ok saturday i have a bbq/party to go to, no this isnt a what shirt do i wear question. well at this party is a girl i like (its her place shes the host) i know for a fact she likes me. I like her but well Im shy and have been hurt really badly in person to person relationships. she has been hurt before too. now my question is how should i approach the situation. should i try to get to know her, or should i let her engage the conversation. also id love to invite her to a baseball game on the 8th but im not sure how to go about it. i know she loves the team but how should i ask her, should i ask as a friend or try to make it a date? we have know each other since the super bowl, and only talked a few times. any help would be appreciated. i would also like to say i swear on everything valuable in my life that i will not get mad and promise to take all advice seriously, regardless of any past problems we may have had. thank you for looking at this and reading.

Go for broke! Ask her to the game on a date. ^_^ Make sure your intentions are seen as good and tell her you came upon some tickets and wondered if she'd go with you.

I mean, might as well.

What Q said :D

Just ask her :D Say you have tickets, and you know she likes the team. Keep it light :D

Just go for it. The worse she can say is no. It's not like she has a boyfriend right? Unlike some girl I'm trying to get ....

I don't get the problem.. really..
If you actually know she likes you, then ask her. You're luckier than every other person on the planet, that don't know if the person they like, likes them back..

well clair the probelm is actually more about what should i do at the party (im guessing most people didnt notice that and only saw about the game.) my problem is every time i saw her i freeze up and dont know what to say... then it just seems like im ignoring her and i fell like a wanna throw myself off a cliff or light myself on fire cuz i feel so dam stupid for just sitting here.

Well that's not a problem any of us can solve if you freeze up. Just take a deep breath and do it, otherwise its never going to happen.

CLAIRVOYANTdisease wrote:Well that's not a problem any of us can solve if you freeze up. Just take a deep breath and do it, otherwise its never going to happen.

omg i hate my computer *beats thing with a bat*

ok moving on. thanks thats better then what her friends decided to do to us the last time they "tried to help" there solution was to force her into the same room as me and leave. it seemed more like they were dropping off a package of explosives than trying to get me to talk to her. yeah what ensued from that stunt was us talking to each other awkwardly about why i was sleeping on the couch. *bangs head into wall* ....yeah not the greatest moment ever in my life. and thanks everyone about the game, im so gonna invite her ^^ wish me luck!! (as long as being sick doesnt kill me before saturday..)

Before you say something take 3 VERY deep breaths, it will put you on a natural high, and you'll feel more relaxed. ^__^ i use this before public performances and it helps me out.

Awww...

I agree, go for it.

The worst she can possibly say is 'No'

If she doesn't go, at least you have friends to go with and have fun with? :P

Shugo wrote:well clair the probelm is actually more about what should i do at the party (im guessing most people didnt notice that and only saw about the game.) my problem is every time i saw her i freeze up and dont know what to say... then it just seems like im ignoring her and i fell like a wanna throw myself off a cliff or light myself on fire cuz i feel so dam stupid for just sitting here.

When you freeze up, you can just pretend you are cool and her. That works with some girls. Or you could just make some playful sarcastic comments.

^ agreed! However, keep in mind that it doesnt work with ALL chicks.

Just talk to her ^^

TheFirstKnight wrote:Just go for it. The worse she can say is no. It's not like she has a boyfriend right? Unlike some girl I'm trying to get ....

Way to be.

thanks everyone

(if only i could get rid of this horrible cough now )

go for it shuuchan =3 *ish jan by the way, cause you might not notice with my super ninja powers* if you know she likes you i don't see any reason for her to say no

and and and =O and you should go talk to her =3 it always feels nice to be talked to =3