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    Post by GL

    you know those days when youre just really happy for no reason at all? thats how my day is today! :D i have a lot of hw, but im still happy! i have just cleaned my room, and it was fun! ... it must be becasue the sun have been shining all day for the first time in a week. xD

    today actually was really sucky, and im surprised that it havent ruined my day. so, this is what happened. (:
    you know those people that think they are better, prettier and much more worth than you? we have 4 of those in my class. for a week they have been acting like bitches to my friend and she doesnt do anything about it. i tell her to bitch back, but she doesnt. so, today they did it again, for the first time in school. (usual they do it on the computer) i got really irritated and bitched back at them saying "do you think youre something special? no, thats right, youre not. youre just a bunch of (meaie beanie word)". my friend didnt like it when i bitched at them, she got pissed actually ^^;

    soo~ the question of the day is:
    did you think i was doing the right thing to protect my friend even if she got mad?

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    Post on Thu Sep 10 2009, 12:42 by quater

    Not sure.
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    Post on Fri Sep 11 2009, 09:57 by GL

    mh... oki doki Q
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    Post on Fri Sep 11 2009, 12:26 by SickSelfishSyQo

    Well, it wasn't the wrong thing to do.
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    Post on Fri Sep 11 2009, 14:22 by quater

    Okay, I took another look at it and to decide whether you did the right thing or the wrong thing you need to figure out what was going through your head at that exact moment.

    My guess is it had to be one of these two options:
    A) You guys are lashing out at my friend and I don't like that. It makes me unhappy so I am going to lash out at you. Although probably not in those terms, if you went after them for the purpose and reasoning to get back at them for how they were treating your friend, then I'd have to say your reason shows that you were trying to hurt them, and you probably ventured into the wrong.
    B) These guys are hurting my friend and I have to protect her because she's unwilling. Hopefully if I show them we're not weak they'll back down and leave her alone. So I will stand up to them for the sake of helping my friend. If you did it for this reason you are actually, in my opinion, just trying to help your friend so you're probably in the right. Sometimes bullies like that have to be taken down by showing you're not victims to their game.

    You'd also have to be intellectually honest with yourself to find out what was going through your head. You can't try and pick the option that puts you in the right. And technically its possible that both were going through your head, so you'd have to find one to lean on. There is, also, probably other thoughts but these two seemed to be the ones that made sense to me and any others are probably offbranches of these, in my opinion.

    Noffense to you at all whatsoever, GL, but since you did ask did you do right, my opinion is you were probably going a little more with option A. My opinion on this is because you did talk to them a little bit on the rough side, and though that could of been a show it makes you seem more like an A. If you were in the B Mindset, I might suggest in the future instead of throwing tough talk just say, "Hey, do you mind not being rude to my friend here? Okay? I'd really appreciate it if you laid off." Same message, but to be honest I've seen people who can say that and sound extremely intimidating no backsas indeed. So as I said, in the future if you were a B, try that instead of the trash talk.

    The other reason you seem a bit more of an A is that you went against your friend's wishes. That just makes it seem more out of anger than out of a willingness to protect your friend.

    By the way, I'm not trying to make you feel guilty or trying to make you seem bad, I am just giving my opinion. Given the situation I'd most likely of done the same thing, or at least something similar. So don't feel bad, it was a tough issue. This is what I think. ~ Q
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    Post on Sat Sep 12 2009, 03:16 by GL

    woah, Q, youre really good at these stuff *smiles* hah, i think youre right. i was absolutely more of an A ^^; *Thinks* .. but im good with being an A, actually.
    the same thing happened yesterday and my friend said she didnt like it becasue they would probably go after us. i said they would probably go after me, not her. because im the one who have said things to them, so i was okey with it, becasue i didnt want to see them being mean to my friend. *shurgs* so i dont really care if she gets mad, just as long they dont act like bitches to her. i know that she will get pretty hurt if they keep doing it.
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    Post on Sat Sep 12 2009, 03:18 by GL

    SickSelfishSycho wrote:Well, it wasn't the wrong thing to do.

    oki doki SSS :P thanks for your thought (:
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    Post on Sat Sep 12 2009, 03:22 by quater

    GL wrote:woah, Q, youre really good at these stuff *smiles* hah, i think youre right. i was absolutely more of an A ^^; *Thinks* .. but im good with being an A, actually.
    the same thing happened yesterday and my friend said she didnt like it becasue they would probably go after us. i said they would probably go after me, not her. because im the one who have said things to them, so i was okey with it, becasue i didnt want to see them being mean to my friend. *shurgs* so i dont really care if she gets mad, just as long they dont act like bitches to her. i know that she will get pretty hurt if they keep doing it.

    Thanks ^_^

    The second time sounds more like a B, to be honest. *Punns...*
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    Post on Sat Sep 12 2009, 03:32 by GL

    quater wrote:
    GL wrote:woah, Q, youre really good at these stuff *smiles* hah, i think youre right. i was absolutely more of an A ^^; *Thinks* .. but im good with being an A, actually.
    the same thing happened yesterday and my friend said she didnt like it becasue they would probably go after us. i said they would probably go after me, not her. because im the one who have said things to them, so i was okey with it, becasue i didnt want to see them being mean to my friend. *shurgs* so i dont really care if she gets mad, just as long they dont act like bitches to her. i know that she will get pretty hurt if they keep doing it.

    Thanks ^_^

    The second time sounds more like a B, to be honest. *Punns...*

    np

    hm, mabye. ^^; but yeah, i still think im an A.
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    Post on Sat Sep 12 2009, 03:33 by quater

    That's a kay! Well, glad you liked my analyses.
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    Post on Sat Sep 12 2009, 03:42 by GL

    haha they were great! thanks again (:
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    Post on Sat Sep 12 2009, 04:19 by Mikel

    hm, to be honest, on my opinion (since i'm not a good guy like q), then i'd say you did the right thing. because to me, you're just protecting your friend.


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    Post on Sat Sep 12 2009, 04:31 by GL

    okey mikel ^^ thanks for your opinion. :D

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